When I entered the church foyer yesterday, the sun was shining.  There is a mirror in the foyer and as I saw my reflection, I noticed all of the gray hair.  It was actually quite lovely to see.  I had been wondering lately why my hair was beginning to look soo blond.  Its not, the gray hair is becomming more, it is taking over the red.  The sunlight helped me to see it better.  So, my question of the day is---what would be a better to take care of the gray.  My hair is very coarse and the gray is making that more so.  I am still doing my regular routine, should I add more oil.  What about oiling the ends when my hair is damp.  The hair will not dry tho as it takes 6 - 8 hours to dry without the oil.  I really dont know alot about taking care of my grays.  Will it be the same as my red/gold?  Will I actually need to change shampoo?  I have played with shampoo/condish for gray hair, but should I change over to that completely?  Sooo many questions, sooo little time.

Deb

Thanks BB  I also think of my "hairs of wisdom" so I dont plan to color/cover in anyway.  But mainly what I think I wanted to know is since my hair is soo course and the graying is even courser (I am sure that is a word) how much oil should I be applying and how often.  I added oil to the ends just b4 they got dry yesterday, and that really helped.  What about the general body of my hair?  Would oiling b4 it gets dry take it longer to get dry and would it make greasier?  I dunno  . 

Deb

OK!  Thanks BB.  I am going to wash tomarrow morning but tonite I plan to oil.  Soo, I will probably trying oiling the damp ends only and see how that works.

Debr