I like to do an updo but leave a lot of tendrils at the hairline on the front sides from temple to just in front of the ear and also at the hairline from behind the ears to the nape of the neck, and then roll just the damp tendrils on smooth plastic rollers and let air dry.  Aloe vera gel will give these curls more definition and staying power.  I think sponge rollers would work just fine if not wound too tightly like BB said.  This gives me a softer style that I like and it can look good in any situation from casual to very formal.  A cinnamon bun works the best for me, either high or low, but I have done this with a French twist and had it turn out nicely, especially with hair sticks.  Since my hair is so fine and slippery, I sometimes reinforce my updo with a few hairpins before putting in my hairsticks, then carefully insert the hairstix so that I don't scratch them.  Hope this helps some!  I also love hats with this style and nice earrings.  Feminine silky high-necked halter tops look nice with this as do soft floaty dresses but it looks great with jeans, too.

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