I've been fighting against split ends for over a week now. Every day I have dutifully trimmed at least 30 split hairs, on some days even a hundred. To conclude, I've trimmed hundreds of them until today. And there's no end in sight! I know this is the first time ever when I've trimmed this way. And I have lots of very fine hair, of which most hadn't splitted even when I begun this project. In general, my hair looks like it is in a good shape until the ends. But still. Hundreds of split hairs is bad, I think. 

The only thing that keeps me from making appointment to my hairstylist is, that my problem aren't only split ends. Some hairs have splitted from, like 10 centimeters (about 4 inches, I think) from the end, so trimming the ends would not save me. 

Other than split ends, my hair has also static. I've tried to reduce it by oiling the hair a little with jojoba oil every day, but it doesn't seem to take the problem away. I also tried to use aloe vera gel instead of my regular hairspray, but though I have been able to reduce the amount of hairspray I use, I cannot get rid of it completely. Aloe vera gel is somewhat powerless with my hair. 

What can I do to make my hair nice and friendly again?

In short: HEEEEEELP! Please, help!

Have you had a significant change in your shampoo or conditioner?  It could be that previous product was hiding the splits by "gluing" them together.  Silicone products are designed to do this.  When you quit using the silicone, then all the splits become evident.

But for repair, I'm afraid trimming/dusting is the best solution.  Make sure the scizzors is very sharp and you are cutting straight across the hair - not at an angle. You don't want to start new splits!

they have specific hair cutting scissors that are better for the job rather than the normal craft/household scissors.
what you might want to try is taking a small section of hair and twisting it then running yoru fingers up it to bring out the split ends. Then burn off the split ends by running the hair over a candle. Of course not too close or you'll burn your hair. I haven't actually tried this myself but my cousin (a hair stylist) suggested it.

At the moment there are very few splits in my hair, so things have improved a lot. 

I still keep regular dusting sessions, about twice a week (or when I remember  ). But often anyways- otherwise I'm in trouble. I don't go through all my hair, just take a random section and check it.

I also treat my hair with care and try to be as gentle with it as I can. I think this has improved its overall condition.

I agree with eKatherine- trimming isn't a solution to splits. My hair is far from one length- single hairs can be any length, and not all of them are split from the end. So after trimming I would just have less length and still splits. Not good. I plan to trim my hair a bit more often for a few months after it gets to BSL in hopes to make the ends thicker.

I find white dots too! what are they?

oh, thankyou.