So pls help me because it is starting to break what did I do wrong? I bought everything and even wash it... :-/

Ah, would you mind giving us a bit more information about what happened? That would let us provide you with better info. about what to do.

But as of now, because your hair is breaking, it sounds like it's really dry and in need of moisture. If that's the case, some deep conditioning treatments would help. Also, if you heat style your hair, stop because it'll make it drier. Sorry I can't be of more help at the moment.  :-/

I mean is that my highlight hair but my natural hair is blk but I have coloring hair by way ...It is breaking but I had tried a lot of products in "motion" and olive oil lotion all had done no good at taking care ...I had tried wash and condition but it aint growing longer ,..what did I do wrong? Plus I have a small hole with nappy might it is in gene from ma that had huge hole of bald but I refuse to having it bald! I wanna recommend of it be prevented because I think might it is just a small hole with nappy patch is just a beginning of process.  :-/

Anytime you bleach hair (which what highlighting typical is), you are damaging the hair.  The greater the difference between the original color and the highlighted color, the more damage that has had to occur.

Keeping the hair moisturized will help with the breakage.  Use a deep conditioning conditioner to start with.  Oiling the hair or using shea butter can also help keep the hair flexible.

You might visit a hair salon that specialized in hair coloring to see if they have any other recommendations.